Mar 2, 2009
5 Types of Words That Can Transform Your Relationships
This weekend at Woodlands Church (@woodlandschurch), we had the opportunity to hear from guest speaker, Tom Holladay of Saddleback Church.
Tom recently released a new book titled The Relationship Principles of Jesus.
Tom talked to us about how important our words are to our relationships.
He left us with a words challenge. There are 5 types of words that can transform our relationships. We are to choose at least 1 of the 5 and work these words into our speech this week.
1) Kind words transform worry to joy
Worry can rob you of happiness, but kind words will cheer you up. - Proverbs 12:25 (TEV)
2) Gentle words break through anger
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. - Proverbs 15:1 (NIV)
3) Pleasant words encourage learning
Pleasant words promote instruction. - Proverbs 16:21b (NIV)
4) Honest words make us feel loved
An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips. - Proverbs 24:26 (NIV)
5) Wise words heal broken hearts
Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as any sword, but wisely spoken words can heal. - Proverbs 12:18 (TEV)
Join me in the challenge. Which type of words will you incorporate into your relationships this week? I have chosen gentle words.
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I found your blog from Pastor Pete's blog.
I know I need to work on my tone. Often it's not what I say but how I say it that gets me in trouble w/ my wife. If its alright, I would like to print off your post and put it on the fridge as a reminder of how God wants us to talk to each other.
Thank you for the inspiration to make others' days brighter.
Ben
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Printing out this post is a great idea.
Having this list and the supporting Proverbs in a highly visible place will serve as a helpful reminder.
My 8 yr old son and I had a great conversation about these 5 types of words on the way to school this morning. He also chose gentle words for the words challenge.
I definitely need to work on speaking KIND words. I know it means a lot when they're spoken to me, and I want to be sure Im speaking the same language to others.
I'll have to pick this book up. Have heard great things.
I have been working on Kind words. Speaking words of encouragement to others is a good habit to develop.
I am looking forward to reading the book… our small group starts next Monday. :-)
thanks for sharing Kay
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