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Anger

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Anger.

It’s something we all experience. And if we are honest with ourselves, something we all struggle with from time to time.

I had an encounter with anger this weekend.  A stranger gave me some unsolicited parenting “advice”.  The tone and inappropriateness of her comments set off a feeling of anger within me.

Soon after that experience, I sat down and read these words from Dallas Willard in The Divine Conspiracy on the subject of anger…….

In its simplest form, anger is a spontaneous response that has a vital function in life. As such, it is not wrong. It is a feeling that seizes us in our body and immediately impels us toward interfering with, and possibly even harming, those who have thwarted our will and interfered with our life.

Anger embraced is, accordingly, inherently disintegrative of human personality and life. It does not have to be specifically “acted out” to poison the world. Because of what it is, and the way it seizes upon the body and its environment just by being there, it cannot be hidden. All our mental and emotional resources are marshaled to nurture and tend the anger, and our body throbs with it. Energy is dedicated to keeping the anger alive: we constantly remind ourselves of how wrongly we have been treated. And when it is allowed to govern our actions, of course, its evil is quickly multiplied in heart-rending consequences and in the replication of anger and rage in the hearts and bodies of everyone it touches.

Anger.

Experience it. Feel it.

But then let it go.

Don’t embrace it. Don’t keep it alive.

Don’t let it poison you and those around you. Don’t let it multiply or replicate.

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What I’m Reading

Dark Matter

here’s a quick look at what i’m reading…….

  • just wrapped up Groundswell today // a must read for anyone interested in “winning in a world transformed by social technologies
  • working my way through The Divine Conspiracy // really learning from this Dallas Willard masterpiece. In this book, Willard thoroughly explores the true nature of the teachings of Jesus

What books are on your nightstand / Kindle / iPhone?

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Re-Visioning

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When I was younger I had an incorrect view of God.  My view of God is now correct, but still incomplete.

  • An incorrect view is to not see God as loving.  An incomplete view is to not fully understand how loving he is.
  • An incorrect view is to not see God as powerful.  An incomplete view is to not fully comprehend his power.
  • An incorrect view is to not see God as gracious.  An incomplete view is to not fully fathom his amazing grace.

Incorrect & incomplete. There is a big difference.

Dallas Willard says this about one’s view of God in The Divine Conspiracy…..

Central to the understanding and proclamation of the Christian gospel today, as in Jesus’ day, is a re-visioning of what God’s own life is like and how the physical cosmos fits into it.  It is a great and important task to come to terms with what we really think when we think of God.

Willard goes on to include this description of God by Adam Clarke…….

the eternal, independent, and self-existent Being; the Being whose purposes and actions spring from himself, without foreign motive or influence; he who is absolute in dominion; the most pure, the most simple, the most spiritual of all essences; infinitely perfect; and eternally self-sufficient, needing nothing that he has made; illimitable in his immensity, inconceivable in his mode of existence, and indescribable in his essence; known fully only by himself, because an infinite mind can only be fully comprehended by itself.  In a word, a Being who, from his infinite wisdom, cannot err or be deceived, and from his infinite goodness, can do nothing but what is eternally just and right, and kind.

Love that description.

An accurate and correct description of God…yes.

A complete description of God….probably not.

How do you see Him?

Books // My Wishlist For ‘09

Yesterday, I posted a quick recap of some of the books I read in 2008.

Here is a list of some of the books on my wishlist that I plan to read in 2009.

Reality Check: The Irreverent Guide to Outsmarting, Outmanaging, and Outmarketing Your Competition // Guy Kawasaki

Groundswell: Winning in a World Transformed by Social Technologies // Charlene Li, Josh Bernoff

The Divine Conspiracy: Rediscovering Our Hidden Life In God // Dallas Willard

The Dip: What Winners Know About Quitting // Seth Godin

Wide Awake: Start Dreaming with Your Eyes Open // Erwin Raphael McManus

The Three Big Questions for a Frantic Family: A Leadership Fable…About Restoring Sanity To The Most Important Organization In Your Life // Patrick Lencioni

The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism // Timothy Keller

Next Generation Leader: 5 Essentials for Those Who Will Shape the Future // Andy Stanley

Visioneering: God’s Blueprint for Developing and Maintaining Personal Vision // Andy Stanley

1776 // David McCullough

What books are on your wishlist for 2009?

Books // A Recap of ‘08

I love to read.  If I’m not reading, I feel as if I’m not learning.  If I’m not learning, I feel as if I’m not growing.

Here is a quick recap of some books I read in 2008.

The Best of ‘08

Tribes // Seth Godin

Axiom // Bill Hybels

Crazy Love // Francis Chan

Revolution of Character // Dallas Willard & Don Simpson

Wild Goose Chase // Mark Batterson

The Screwtape Letters // C.S. Lewis

Great Books of ‘08

One Month to Live // Kerry & Chris Shook

Walking With God // John Eldredge

ID: The True You // Mark Batterson

Mavericks at Work // William C. Taylor & Polly Labarre

Talent Is Never Enough // John Maxwell

Simplicity // Bill Jensen

Also Learned From in ‘08

200 Pomegranates & An Audience of One // Shawn Wood

The Truth About You // Marcus Buckingham

Integrity // Dr. Henry Cloud

Churched //  Matthew Paul Turner

The Faith of Barack Obama // Stephen Mansfield

Lead Like Jesus // Ken Blanchard & Phil Hodges

Which books did you learn & grow from in 2008?

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