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This weekend at Woodlands Church (@woodlandschurch), we had the opportunity to hear from guest speaker, Tom Holladay of Saddleback Church.

Tom recently released a new book titled The Relationship Principles of Jesus.

Tom talked to us about how important our words are to our relationships.

He left us with a words challenge.  There are 5 types of words that can transform our relationships.  We are to choose at least 1 of the 5 and work these words into our speech this week.

1)  Kind words transform worry to joy

Worry can rob you of happiness, but kind words will cheer you up.  - Proverbs 12:25 (TEV)

2)  Gentle words break through anger

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.  - Proverbs 15:1 (NIV)

3)  Pleasant words encourage learning

Pleasant words promote instruction.  - Proverbs 16:21b (NIV)

4)  Honest words make us feel loved

An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.  - Proverbs 24:26 (NIV)

5)  Wise words heal broken hearts

Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as any sword, but wisely spoken words can heal.  - Proverbs 12:18 (TEV)

Join me in the challenge.  Which type of words will you incorporate into your relationships this week?  I have chosen gentle words.